The Power Of Eye Contact

There’s a few fundamental things that are important to have down with everyone you meet. It could be body language, that smile, a good fashion, and of course…eye contact. We’re all told about it. Most of us think we even do it correctly. Unfortunately very few people I meet utilize it’s full power and potential. …

Ladies: 6 Signs You’re Over Investing

When girl’s see and meet loser after loser it can get discouraging, to say the least. That’s why when one comes along who happens to be the entire package it can send a girl’s emotional investment into overdrive. All of a sudden no other guy can compare and you’re idealizing this one man above all …

Modern Advice: Are You Truly Free?

Very few words can bring up pure happiness and joy the way “freedom” does. Our forefathers fought hard for liberty and freedom developing this nation. The worst punishment in our society is to take away someone’s freedom by putting them in prison. Many value it more than life itself, “give me liberty or give me …

Want Her To Respect You? Give First

Looking for Respect? So you want to be respected by women huh? You think negging and putting her down are going to get you there? Think again. That isn’t Modern Flirting. If you want her respect for you and your masculinity, let’s talk about giving first. Whatup, Psych here. I want to share a little story …

5 Ways To Create Abundance, Even When You Don’t Feel It

Abundance All the guru’s shout it: “You ARE abundance!” “FEEEEL Abundant!” “just be abundance!” And to be honest, it’s kinda a get out of jail free card. Because on one hand it’s true, it’s important to have abundance in your life, but the phrase has lost virtually all its meaning. Many people ask me: “Psych, …

Attraction: Why She Doesn’t Even Notice You If You’re “Nice”

Here’s a BIG question I get from clients on modern dating: “Psych, I was talking to a girl at the club and it was going well but then she made up some excuse to leave and later I saw her dancing with some other guy, what happened?” or “I met this girl during the day …

SOLVED: The Problem With “Just Be Yourself”

Just Be Yourself? Really? We’ve all heard the clichéd advice, “just be yourself!”. And it’s some of the best and worst information you’ll ever hear. And it’s also some of the most confusing. People are fearful of change, especially when they see their friends changing and it threatens their own identity. “You’ve changed man” is something …

Reinventing Yourself? You’re Thinking Too Hard

We falsely believe we can just think ourselves to a new identity If we just know what we want, we’ll get it right? Or maybe we’ve got it all backwards. According to Herminia Ibarra, Professor of Organizational Behavior at the London Business School, life works the opposite: “Doing comes first, and knowing comes second”. Our identities define themselves …

Why Approaching Is So Scary (And Why That’s secretly A Good Thing)

Let me know if this situation sounds familiar: It’s Saturday and you’re out, relaxing after a stressful week. And that’s when you see her: A complete smoking bombshell of a girl just walking down the street. The world slows down to zero as you hyper focus on her, noticing the shine of her lip gloss …

One last approach…

Struggling to make meeting women fun? Then you’ll love this story To this day, I still vividly remember one approach where, for some reason, the nerves just took hold of my entire body. I walked up to her and just spat out nonsensical verbal diarrhea. You probably know exactly what it sounds like “Hey, I …